Is Christmas Discouraging for You? Time to Attack the Blues!

Psalm 5 - To the Chief Musician. With nehiloth. A Psalm of David.

1 Give ear to my words, O LORD,
Consider my meditation.

2 Give heed to the voice of my cry,
My King and my God,
For unto You I will pray.

3 My voice You shall hear in the morning, O LORD;
In the morning I will direct it to You,
And I will look up.

4 For You are not a God who takes pleasure in wickedness,
Nor shall evil dwell with You.

5 The boastful shall not stand in Your sight;
You hate all workers of iniquity.

6 You shall destroy those who speak falsehood;
The LORD abhors the bloodthirsty and deceitful man.

7 But as for me, I will come into Your house in the multitude of Your mercy;
In fear of You I will worship toward Your holy temple.

8 Lead me, O LORD, in Your righteousness because of my enemies;
Make Your way straight before my face.

9 For there is no faithfulness in their mouth;
Their inward part is destruction;
Their throat is an open tomb;
They flatter with their tongue.

10 Pronounce them guilty, O God!
Let them fall by their own counsels;
Cast them out in the multitude of their transgressions,
For they have rebelled against You.

11 But let all those rejoice who put their trust in You;
Let them ever shout for joy, because You defend them;
Let those also who love Your name
Be joyful in You

12 For You, O LORD, will bless the righteous;
With favor You will surround him as with a shield.

I love this Psalm. I even made a song out of it's first 3 verses once. The entirety of Psalms, our most ancient hymnal, contains some of the most moving and meaningful expressions of the human heart that have ever been penned.

I had lunch with a songwriter friend yesterday. I was reminded as we sat there that music, songs, are often born out of current, emotionally charged circumstances that so affect the thinking of the writer/composer, that they can't help but break out melody, rhyme and verse. Jazz, blues, gospel spirituals and even the romantics songs all are examples of this. The same should be said of gospel songs and sacred hymns; their historical settings often explaining the full measure and depth of their message.

Psalm 5 is like that. As we read it, we might reason it emerged out of a heart that was in the midst of strife and oppression. David is down in the dumps . . . discouraged. King David was its writer. Whatever his pressures were, they prompted him to compose an ancient hymn that i perceive was in a minor key.

It reminded me of the affect that Christmas can have on many of us. In this season, for a great many, I seriously doubt that there is any subject more timely than the topic of discouragement. As a Life Coach, Pastor and business consultant I find so many folks playing out their entire lives in a minor key and the holidays simply exacerbate this. There is the gnawing and often debilitating discouragement that follows an unachieved goal, broken home, empty nest or a failed romance. Some are discouraged over their marriage which began with such promise but now seems hopeless. Lingering ill-health can discourage and demoralize all who are affected by the one who is at the center of it all. This can be true and even more so when the pain lingers and doesn't subside. Over the last couple of years in our flailing economy how many have made courageous yet failed attempts to stave off economic collapse only to fall flat. How many know someone like that? In my business life I have seen this paralyze individuals. The discouragement brought on by several back-to-back criticisms as they tried and tried can scarcely be exaggerated in their long-term affects in demoralizing and destroying confidence.

In this verse it could be that we are seeing David attempting to pick himself up off the mat when, just at that moment, another biting and piercing verbal attack is leveled at him; the comments knocking him back to his knees . . . hence and perhaps (though the Holy Spirit truly authors this and all scripture) the birth of Psalm 5.

Many a discouraged soul has identified with this song down through the centuries. Frequently, the words just above the first verse (which comprise the superscription) set forth the historical backdrop of the song.

If you glance just above verse 1 in some King James Versions of the Bible, you will see that David desired this song to be played "upon Nehiloth." A nehiloth was an ancient woodwind instrument, something like today's flute or oboe. An oboe is a double-reed instrument giving a sad-sounding whine as it is being played. Its penetrating tone causes it to be used frequently as a solo instrument when the mood of the musical composition needs to illustrate deep longing, hurting, pain or somber reflection.

Interestingly, David did not play the nehiloth, but rather an ancient stringed instrument called the harp (see 1 Samuel 16:23, KJV). My point is simply this: David wrote this sad song of discouragement for someone else to play---not himself. Perhaps the surrounding circumstances were too overwhelming for him to participate in the playing of this piece. Perhaps he "heart it" in oboe; the composition could be rendered better by one who was skilled on the nehiloth. The sad tone of that instrument would enhance the feeling of discouragement which gave birth to this song...the Psalm.

It's Christmas season 2010. The tone in our household this year is upbeat. It's promising. We have been recently financially blessed after a very long dry period. We have experienced earthly new birth. I have a new grandson-Elijah Logan Wilson. He is joy. He is a blessing. He lives and brings light hearts and smiles and warmth and...and...

...and last year my dad-in-law passed just before this season as did my brother and oh, my loved ones and friends, how different a year makes things.

So, I ask, what is your song today?

Let me make a recommendation or two. If you are discouraged in this season, admit it. Spell it out in detail in your time with the Lord. Take time to express the depth of your pain. Don't deny the reality of your sorrow. State your honest feelings. God can handle it! And, He wants you to come clean with Him about it and what you would also hope He would do to intervene.

But don't stop there. Now at least twice, tell a someone why you are grateful to be alive . . . why you are more encouraged than you used to be. It will not only be therapy for you, it will lift that person's spirits as well. Wonderful changes can occur in us and others when we spread a few cheer germs around.

One other thing...go to www.youtube.com and look up and watch several snippets on a fellow by the name of Nick Vujicic...you may know who this is but if you don't just take my advice and do it. Let the idea that blessing may not ever look like what we expect it do overcome and overwhelm you as you watch. That is what David did, and Joseph of the Old Testament, and Jesus and Paul...and we are to do so as well.

Happy Holidays-I pray you had a thankful Thanksgiving and a Jesus Christ filled Christmas...

I remain...

InHISgrip,
~J~